Round two of monthly goals:
August-
1) Work related goal:
I did not meet this :( I realized that I need to separate my work and personal goals. After I published my May goals post, a friend from grade school reached out to me and told me about goal sheets that she uses. I love this idea! I am going to try to use it for my professional goals and hopefully that will get me to actually take some big steps.
2) Visit the aquarium:
We took Meredith to the
Fort Fisher Aquarium and loved watching her take in all the sights. She loved looking at the fish but also loved people watching. She takes after her mother. Only luckily for her, babies can stare all they want without looking creepy ;)
3) Get to the beach every week:
I didn't technically meet this goal since there was one week that I did not step foot on the beach but I count it as a win since we made it to the beach 6-7 times and also swam in a pool 3 times this month! Meredith is definitely loving the outdoors and anything adventurous. I think we are going to have one little adrenaline junky on our hands!
4) Go stand up paddle boarding:
Finally I got back on the paddle board! It is a lot of work to drag all our gear to the beach with a baby but now that Meredith can nap at the beach and is a little more adaptable, it is so much easier to get out and about without worrying about her schedule. Tyler and I took turns paddle boarding one day and then I also was able to go again with my mom when she and my sister were in town. I am hoping to line up a babysitter so we can both go out together soon.
5) Pay off my law school loans:
Yay! When I had my loan exit meeting at the end of law school and learned that a ten year payment plan would result in paying an additional 2/3 of my total loan amount in interest, I made it a goal to pay off our student debt as fast as possible. We budget every month for our necessary expenses and any personal spending and then all of our extra cash flow goes into additional loan payments. Since my loans had the highest interest rate, they were our first target. Now onto Tyler's gazillion loans from undergrad and dental school.
6) Have Connie & Jim over for dinner:
My coworker, Connie, is the sweetest lady and I am so lucky to have met her. She hosted a baby shower for me, and she and her husband have invited us to dinner and their holiday parties. I have been saying forever that we were going to have them over but it seemed like there was always a project going on at our house. After our new floors were installed, we set a date and finally made it happen. We had a great time and I made my first pie from scratch!
7) Take a staycation:
I get the travel itch if I don't have something coming up. After we made the final payment on my student loans and my dad asked what we were going to do or buy to celebrate, we booked a night at the Holiday Inn at Wrightsville beach. We had a balcony with an ocean view, ordered room service and drank pina coladas and daiquiris poolside for two days. It was the perfect staycation and something that we plan to repeat the next two summers. You can read more about it
here.
8) Plan a girl's night:
Three of our closest couple friends moved away this summer and it has been hard. Especially since two of them also had babies and stayed home during the week so we could plan play dates and outings. I love being a mom but I also think I am a better mom after having some "me" time whether that be work or social. I am making an extra effort to make sure I have a night out with some friends to do just that.
9) Date night:
We failed at this again :( BUT - we have a date set for September!